Friday, January 23, 2009

Overcome Jealousy

To view this directly on YouTube click here Stop Being Jealous

The ability to overcome jealousy is an admirable trait, especially for competitive sorts. Whist healthy competition is a valuable motivational force jealous tendencies are counterproductive. Help for jealousy is available through hypnosis. This process offers a way to help you change the way that you think about your competition.

Objectivity

Taking an objective view of a problem is extremely difficult and when it comes to jealous emotions, it can seem impossible. However, an objective stance is necessary to ensure that you take control of the situation. Objectivity often leads to a realistic perception that is very valuable.

Obtaining distance during a jealous episode is impossible without the support of your subconscious mind. The emotion stems from an automatic cycle that has developed over time. This cycle can be reversed once you recognize the pattern and work through the automatic thought patterns that set the emotional response in motion.

Jealous Cycles

Jealous cycles are troublesome but they can be addressed through the subconscious mind. Consider the link between thoughts, emotional responses and behavioural follow-through. Negative, insecure thinking patterns lead to natural emotional responses that lead to jealous behaviour. It is most likely that the behaviour you exhibit is the source of the problems in your situation.

Overcome Jealousy By Overcoming Fear

Fear is a fundamental emotion that is very powerful. Those who have jealous tendencies are afraid of losing relationships or property that is dear to them. This fear sets off very strong feelings, including anger, hence the phrase “jealous rage”.

Hypnosis

Hypnosis is an excellent approach to overcoming jealous tendencies. Changing the patterns of thoughts requires entering the subconscious mind and a self-hypnosis recording like Overcome Jealousy is invaluable.

Those who prefer guidance of a more personal level can seek support from a trained hypnotherapist. You can find excellent hypnotists at Treatment And Help For Jealousy who can help you stop being jealous.

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Thursday, October 23, 2008

Alcohol Abuse Self Help: Physical Withdrawals

Self-help for alcohol abuse can be hampered by the painful physical withdrawal symptoms you experience when abruptly quitting alcoholic tendencies. A drinking problem is like any drug addiction. Excessive consumption and alcoholism may cause abusers to give up trying to stop the tendency to drink excessively. You can find a personal guide to support you as you overcome the physical assault your body feels as the addiction resists with violence.

To view this directly on YouTube go here - Stop Binge Drinking

Physical Withdrawal Symptoms

Physical withdrawal symptoms can be quite severe but they can also be very mild, depending on the individual situation. It doesn’t matter whether the symptoms are mere annoyances or life-threatening. Either way, the discomfort you experience is real and it can stand in the way of your ability to overcome alcoholism or alcoholic tendencies.

Cravings

As you try to quit binge drinking abruptly, your body experiences cravings. The cravings result from the physical dependency to the alcoholic beverages. Your body—and your subconscious mind—believe that you need to drink even though the substance does more harm than good. The withdrawal symptoms are so uncomfortable that it is simply easier to have a drink rather than fight the discomfort.

Symptoms

You may experience mild to severe discomfort that manifests itself in nearly every aspect of your physical body. Symptoms include troublesome headaches and nausea similar to those experienced in hangovers. You may experience increased blood pressure and rapid heartbeats. Shaking and sweating are common symptoms as well. These symptoms can lead to feelings of anxiety and stress.

Delirium Tremens

Delirium tremens, commonly known as the DTs, are very problematic because they are so overwhelming. If you are trying to recover from a serious drinking problem, you may experience hallucinations, confusion and delirium. In extreme cases, seizures and convulsions may occur as well as serious heart problems.

Self-Help for Alcohol Abuse

Overcoming alcoholism requires dedication and any approach that you choose for yourself should be given the proper support and guidance. Hypnosis and NLP training can help you work through the physical symptoms of withdrawal while re-patterning your habits. Using the subconscious mind to overcome the physical symptoms is a viable approach to overcoming your addiction.

Self Hypnosis Recordings Can Work To Resolve Alcohol Abuse Problems

Hypnosis recordings can assist you as you overcome your addiction. Great examples of helpful selections include Stop Alcohol Abuse by Duncan McColl and Overcome Alcohol Addiction by Joseph Clough. Both recordings have proven track recordings and come with a full sixty-day guarantee. Stop Binge Drinking is also available in the UK.

Personal One-To One Therapy For Alcohol Abuse Help

Taking steps to recovery may require one to one attention. It is crucial that you choose a professional who has extensive experience. A wonderful resource of therapists worldwide can be found by clicking here - Stop Binge Drinking.

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Wednesday, October 22, 2008

Alcohol Abuse Self Help: Binge Drinking

Binge drinking is a problem for many seeking self-help for alcohol abuse. Alcoholic tendencies are problematic; especially when the drug addiction is manifests its self occasionally. Excessive consumption on occasion may not seem like alcoholism but it is as serious as any drug problem even though abusers may not recognize this. You can find a personal guide to support you as you overcome your tendency to drink is excess.

To view this directly on YouTube go here - Stop Binge Drinking

Excessive Consumption

Alcoholics are not always non-functioning. Many are able to overcome the assault the habit has on their bodies and they never resort to violence while under the influence. However, excessive consumption of alcoholic beverages can have serious ramifications whether the drinking occurs every day or on occasion.

Alcoholism and Personality

A prime indicator that you require guidance to overcome binge drinking is your personality. You may have certain tendencies that include excessive shopping, eating, gambling or other addictive habit. If you easily fall into the realm of addictions in other areas of your life, you may be prone to abusing alcoholic drinks as well.

Habit and Binging

You may think that there is no reason for concern because you drink in excess on occasion. Since the behaviour is not consistent, it may seem as if there is no drinking problem. However, habit does not always relate to a specific behaviour; it can be a way of addressing situations. For example, those who tend to overeat may tend to over drink as well.

Self-Help for Alcohol Abuse

You can begin changing your habits to help overcome binge drinking. Your habits start in your subconscious mind. When you address your patterns of thinking in this realm, you are able to re-pattern your thoughts to form new behaviours.

A Comprehensive Approach

NLP and hypnosis are wonderful options that guide you to develop new patterns of thoughts. The new thought patterns manifest themselves as new behaviours. When you begin working with your subconscious thoughts, you are better able to control the situation.

Self Hypnosis Recordings Can Work To Resolve Alcohol Abuse Problems

Hypnosis recordings are important guides that offer the support you need. Excellent selections include Stop Alcohol Abuse by Duncan McColl and Overcome Alcohol Addiction by Joseph Clough. Both recordings have proven track recordings and come with a full sixty-day guarantee. Stop Binge Drinking is also available in the UK.

Personal One-To One Therapy For Alcohol Abuse Help

Some prefer one to one interaction as they take steps towards recovery. An experienced professional can provide the additional support. An outstanding resource of therapists worldwide can be found by clicking here - Stop Binge Drinking.

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Friday, July 18, 2008

Overcome Jealousy: Hypnosis For Jealousy

Self Hypnosis To Overcome Jealousy

To watch this directly on YouTube click here Stop Being Jealous

So what exactly is jealousy? It’s an out of control imagination, that’s what it is. And you can learn to overcome jealousy with self hypnosis.

Sometimes there is a good reason for being jealous, if your partner has cheated on you, for example. When I see clients in private practice for this, however, nine times out of ten there is no good reason for the feelings of jealousy. It’s just a habit that they learned, and the good news is that it doesn’t matter how the jealousy started, it’s possible to overcome jealousy either by seeing a good hypnotherapist or by listening to a well made self hypnosis recording.

Jealousy Is Another Word For Anger

Well it is usually another word for anger. In the majority of cases the result of jealous feelings is anger. Occasionally it results in withdrawn, moody behaviour but it’s usually anger. And then afterwards the jealous person gets to beat themselves up because they feel so bad about being so ‘stupid’ and over-reacting.

Jealousy Is Not Stupidity

If you were to wake up in the morning and have the thought, ‘shall I be cool, calm and collected today or shall I have jealous fits at the slightest provocation’, and you really had the choice, you would not be jealous. Not if you really had the choice. And if you really had the choice to feel calm and wonderful and you actually then deliberately and consciously chose to be in a jealous rage then yes, that would be stupid.

Jealousy Is A Habit

Our thoughts and behaviours are conditioned by the environment and our experiences and the mind makes ‘patterns’ of thinking depending upon this conditioning. So pretty much everything we think or do we have ‘learned’ to think or do, at least that is how it seems to me.

So jealousy works like this. You see (or imagine) some trigger situation, and that creates the feeling. Typically the ‘jealous’ person ‘sees’ (imagines) the thing vividly, and the more vividly they have the thought the bigger the feeling. Someone who has repeatedly been jealous for years will have so automated this through repetition that it can be seemingly instantaneous response.

Self Hypnosis To Overcome Jealousy

The way that self hypnosis works to overcome jealousy is to retrain this pattern of thought at an unconscious level so that the mind makes more useful and appropriate thoughts, so that the old thoughts simply do not impact upon their neurology. Then, through repetition of listening, the mind gets trained to have more appropriate thoughts at those times that would have been trigger situations, and that’s that. Sometimes other techniques are used to train your mind to make the thoughts of jealousy literally seem more distant in your mind, lessening or eliminating their impact upon your feelings.

That’s a bit like the difference between watching a horror film on a giant cinema screen with surround sound and watching the same film on a tiny little TV the other side of a big room. It may be the same film but it simply won’t affect you in the distance.

A good example of this kind of thing is Joseph Clough’s Overcome Jealousy. Joseph himself makes the point that if you could stop being jealous consciously, you would, but you can’t, because it’s an unconscious process. Hypnosis works with unconscious processes and therefore can be a very good way to overcome jealousy.

It is a good point.

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Sunday, July 6, 2008

Stop Lying End Compulsive Lying

Self Hypnosis Recordings To Help You To Stop Lying

To view this directy on YouTube click here Stop Compulsive Lying

Compulsive lying is one of the most destructive things a person can do. In extreme cases it can lead to the break-up of relationships and marriage, the loss of the person’s job or career, or even a long term prison sentence (depending upon who the person has lied to and about what, naturally).

Types of compulsive lying

The most common category of ‘liar’ I get to see in private practice is the person who makes up a lie on the spot with the intention of avoiding the other person (and, themselves), feeling bad. This kind of reaction is a seemingly automatic, unconscious response and if you have been doing this kind of thing, the chances are that you have been lying for many years.

Exaggeration, mistruth and lying

Then there is the person who makes up outrageous stories about the things they have done, the jobs they have had, the places they have been to, the illnesses they have had, and so forth.

White lies

So called ‘white lies’ are commonplace. You may never have lied at all in your whole life but if you haven’t then you are exceptional. How many of us haven’t answered the phone and spoken to someone our partner really doesn’t want to speak to at that time and said something like, ‘I am sorry, she (he) is in the bath’ (out walking the dog, gone shopping, or whatever.

Repeated lying builds mistrust

I would guess that about eighty per cent of the people I have seen to get them to stop lying have been men who have lied so often that their partner has reached the end of their tether. After all, if someone can lie so much about even little things, what is to say they are not lying about bigger things? That’s generally the partner’s thought process.

Compulsive lying is a ‘habit’

Human brains make ‘habits’. The mind automates things so you don’t have to consciously ‘think’ every time you do something like open a door. Lying is a habit too.

Self hypnosis recordings to stop lying

What self hypnosis recordings do so well is reprogram these habits. A wealth of different techniques are used to help you to be more comfortable and at ease in those moments where previously you would have automatically lied.

Self hypnosis and NLP to stop compulsive lying.

Some recordings also include easy to learn NLP mind training exercises as a bonus, to help you ‘train’ your mind to be more under your control. One such recording is Stop Lying by hypnotherapist Debbie Williams available on this site http://www.selfhelprecordings.com

This is a new set of recordings, also available here Stop Lying Self Hypnosis and is guaranteed to help so feel free to try them out for yourself.

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